Monday, May 02, 2005

Newsflash!

I preach for the most generous congregation in the world. There are some that are larger and some with larger budgets. But no other family I know is so generous when called to be a blessing to others. One week ago you were made aware of a need to buy land and build a home for a young family in Guatemala and to dream about building homes for five more families in l years to come, at a cost of $14,000. Seven days later the money was there. I preach for the most generous congregation in the world, and I am grateful.

Wednesday, April 27, 2005

From the Streets of Boulder - Van

It was a Thursday evening near the end of April, and I was out on the streets of Boulder with Greg, my volunteer Boulder County Cares partner. This was the next to the last week of the season when BCC sends out volunteers to look for homeless people at risk. The temperature seemed to drop very fast, but it was still in the forties. The wind had died down and the sky was clear.

Greg is from Canada and has a day job writing software manuals. He also works as a volunteer at the Food Bank on Tuesday evenings. We had a very interesting discussion when we first left the homeless shelter. Greg remarked that he had run across one of my articles on our church website while surfing the net for groups that work with homeless people. He started asking me about the teachings of Jesus and where they are found in the Bible. He wanted to know if I read the Bible a lot and if it is what our small group studies when we meet on Sunday evenings. He asked several questions about the New Testament and seemed very knowledgeable about the Old Testament.

I asked Greg if his background was Jewish, and he said "No, I'm Muslim." He told me that his mother was Christian. When he was growing up in Canada, she took him to Sunday School when he was very small, then his Muslim father decided he should go to the mosque. He has even made the traditional Muslim pilgrimage to Mecca with his father. His grandmother on his father's side still prays five times a day, and the family still arranges marriages.

Our first stop was a visit with the Hole in the Wall gang -- homeless people who camp out in a wooded area off East Pearl Street. Charles, who has been coming to our Sunday-morning worship at the Boulder Valley Church of Christ, lives there. I met Tom, a man that Charles wants to bring to church with him, and Bob, an older man who was very unsteady on his feet. Tom is off the streets now, but he had brought Bob to the Hole in the Wall so he would have a place to stay. Charles told me that Bob's mother had just passed away and that he hadn't eaten in two days. He was very grateful for the chili we brought and ate three cups. I had picked up a couple of yogurts for Arthur, another man who lives at the Hole in the Wall, because he has stomach problems and can't eat chili. Charles is trying to get Arthur to cut down on his drinking so his stomach will get better.

A little later we ran into an old friend, Clark, on the Pearl Street Mall. He lives on a rooftop in an alley behind the Mall. That night he was sitting on a little wall that surrounds a flower bed and was so intoxicated he could hardly stand up. I had only seen him this drunk once before. He was very depressed but is always glad to see us. All his belongings had gotten wet in the rain the night before, and his jacket was torn from sleeping in it. Clark is a very big man, and we couldn't find a jacket in our truck to fit him.

I asked Clark if he remembered the time a few weeks ago when he and I and my other BCC partner, Kevin, had stood on the corner and prayed. He said, "Oh yes, can we pray together again?" I told him sure, he could just sit there while we prayed, but he insisted on getting up. He had a very hard time standing. He put his arm around my shoulder and grabbed Greg's hand, and we swayed and prayed. Clark led a really beautiful prayer of thanksgiving. He thanked God for sending angels to help him. When our prayer was finished, I told Clark that I had never heard of a bald-headed angel. We had a good laugh, which seemed to make him feel better, and we persuaded him to sit back down. I asked Greg if we could go back to the homeless shelter and search our store room for a coat big enough to fit Clark and some gloves. We gave him a cup of chili and promised to be back in a half-hour.

We drove back to the shelter, looked through all the coats. and finally found a couple of sweaters and a long, heavy wool coat that we hoped would fit him, but no gloves. On our way back to the Mall, we gave a ride to a young man who had just arrived in town from Kentucky. I found out that he had graduated from a high school in Memphis where I did my practice teaching. He had all his gear with him and didn't need anything from us.

Clark was waiting when we got back and couldn't believe we had made a special trip just for him. While Greg was getting him into his new coat, I spoke with the inebriated man Clark had been talking with. Greg called to me and said that Clark wanted to pray again. We got him up and he hugged us again. In the middle of the prayer we were almost knocked over by the other man, who jumped up and grabbed us, wanting to be part of the prayer. We must have been a strange sight to the people on the Mall -- a bald Christian "angel," a Canadian Muslim and two drunks standing arm-in-arm praying to God-- but it didn't feel strange to me. What a beautiful night it was.

We ended our rounds at a car wash on West Canyon Boulevard where there are several tunnels under the road. We didn't go down into them because Greg heard something that sounded like chanting way down in one tunnel and said that it just didn't feel right. We're never supposed to go into any situation when one of us feels uneasy.

We went back to the shelter, finished up our report, and washed out the chili thermos. We both felt we had done some good, and Greg said that he really enjoyed being out with me. I asked him to come to worship with us at Boulder Valley on Sunday morning. He didn't say he would come and he didn't say he wouldn't. I really hope he does. He's a fine young man with a servant heart, and I treasure his friendship. And he's the only friend I've ever had who has made a pilgrimage to Mecca.

Van Alessandro

Tuesday, April 26, 2005

Hospitalbe Places!

Christine Pohl writes: "Welcoming places are comfortable and lived in. Even under difficult circumstances, they are settings in which people flourish. Although not necessarily beautifully maintained or decorated, they are cared for. Such places provide the people that inhabit them with shelter and sanctuary in the deepest sense of these words, not only with the shelter of physical buildings but also with the shelter of relationships.

In such places life is celebrated, yet the environment also has room for brokenness and deep disappointments. These places make faith and a hospitable way of life seem natural, not forced. Hospitable settings are often enhanced by the simple beauty of creation, where body and spirit are fed by attention to small details such as attractively prepared and good-tasting food, or flowers from a nearby garden. Hospitable places allow room for friendships to grow. Food, shelter, and companionship are all interrelated in these settings. In such environments, weary and lonely people can be restored to life."

Monday, April 25, 2005

Signs of Life!

Jean Vanier, founder of the L’Arche communities, writes that “Welcome is one of the signs that a community is alive. To invite others to live with us is a sign that we aren’t afraid, that we have a treasure of truth and of peace to share.” He also offers an important warning: “A community which refuses to welcome— whether through fear, weariness, insecurity, a desire to cling to comfort, or just because it is fed up with visitors—is dying spiritually.

What can you / we do to widen our welcome?

Friday, April 22, 2005

Losing the Labels!

"In a culture that excludes others, prejudice and hatred are common. Prejudice has deeper effects, in addition to simply causing people to exclude others: It is at the root of hostility that is cruel and voilent.

We have made great strides in understanding one another better, but there will be prejudice until you and I deal with prejudice. There will be sexism until we rip up its roots in our hearts. Until we take people of other races into our hearts we will not recognize "them" as real human being. Until we have loved a gay person we will fear gay people...The walls will only come down when the labels are changed into human faces." (Radical Hospitality, 28).

I like that last line. One of my professors said: "The fact that people who don't know Jesus are going to hell goes down far to easily for Christians whose only friends are other Christians." When we finally are able to see past the labels into the eyes and hearts of people - then, an only then will we rekindle the missional urgency of the early church.

Wednesday, April 20, 2005

Wondrously Available!

Reading Van's post yesterday reminded me of this truth: "A brave heart eventually shines with the diving presence; like God they are free, they are welcoming and accepting, they are strong, they are gentle. They are wondrously available. Yes, it will be costly. People will enter your heart and your life; they will become precious to you and then they will leave. An open heart will be broken. This is undeniable. But by remaining open we learn about ourselves and we grow in ways we'd never otherwise grow."

Tuesday, April 19, 2005

A Note from Van:

Open the eyes of my heart, Lord.
Open the eyes of my heart.
I want to see You.
I want to see You.

Over the past couple of months, the eyes of my heart have been opened, and I feel that I've seen Jesus. I saw him last Thursday night in the eyes of a homeless little Jewish man with a scraggly beard and missing teeth. My partner and I from Boulder County Cares had just given him a sleeping bag and a cup of soup. He pulled me aside, gave me a beautiful Hebrew blessing, translated it for me, and said, "Now go in peace."

I've been told this man has a law degree from a university back East.
I saw Jesus again last Sunday when another homeless man who sat next to me in worship reached into the pocket of his worn pants, pulled out all his change, and put it in the collection plate. I had given him a cup of soup on Thursday night.

God makes the choice. I had been trying to I get up the courage to ask one the homeless people I work with to attend worship with me at Boulder Valley, and I finally picked out a man I often see holding up a sign on a street corner. I've gotten to know him on the streets and at the Monday-night food table at the Christian Church and have visited him at the car in a parking lot where he sleeps.

Last Friday afternoon I went looking for this man, determined to invite him to worship. I kept silently praying that God would let me find him and was disappointed when he wasn't in his usual spot. When I turned the corner to head home, there he was, walking in the direction I was headed. I passed him before I recognized him, then turned around, picked him up, and asked him to come to worship with me on Sunday. He said he would be glad to, and we made arrangements to meet. I heaved a sigh of relief and was glad I had gotten up the courage to ask him.

The night before, the same time I received the Hebrew blessing, I was handing out supplies to some homeless friends who live in a small tent back in a wooded area that they call the Hole In The Wall. Without really thinking about it, I called one of the men aside and asked if he would like to attend worship with me. He thought only a moment and said, "That would be great." I told him that I would pick him up Sunday morning at 8:30.

Friday and Saturday nights I prayed that one or both of these men would come with me. The friend that I had picked out to be the most likely person to come with me didn't show up, but Charles, the spur-of-the-moment friend from the Hole in the Wall, was waiting. He is the one who sat by me in worship and gave all his change. He sang all the songs in a beautiful bass voice,listened intently in class, and kept all the class notes.

Charles went to lunch with my wife and me and another lady from church, along with John Meadows, who also works with the homeless at BCC, and two of his sons. Then he helped me fill the BCC closet with coats, socks and food that members of our congregation had donated for the homeless. On Monday morning, Charles helped me take these supplies to the homeless shelter.
I'll ask my other friend again to come to worship, but God may have someone else in mind. I'll try to keep the eyes of my heart open to all I see, not just to the ones I think may be most likely to heed the invitation.

I thank God for these life-changing experiences. Please open your eyes to the needs of the homeless. They can easily become invisible, Not everyone needs to go out on the streets, and some should not. But we all can offer up our prayers for those who do and for those that are being ministered to. Open your eyes to those who are visitors in our
midst. Who knows, you may receive a Hebrew blessing. I guarantee it
will warm your heart.

Van Alessandro